Goodbye 2019

So last time I wrote a post, I talked about managing expectations. I discussed that sometimes, while our expectations are well-intentioned, they may not line up with the will of God and we become disappointed and discouraged when things don’t happen in the time frame or way that we anticipated. And I can’t think of a better time of year when we truly have to face the bitterness of unrealistic expectations than the holidays. Spending the holiday season with family is a time of joy for many. It is a safe haven, a return to our roots, and a time to reconnect. However, for some; the holidays are a time fraught with frustration, stress, and coming face-to-face with disappointment and regret. Some encounter well-meaning relatives inquiring why they don’t have a better job, aren’t finished with their degree, haven’t bought a house, had kids, gotten married and the list is endless. If we are not careful, we can allow these words to take root in our hearts and produce feelings of inadequacy, depression, and a lack of fulfillment. However, in this particular season I urge you to submit all of these expectations whether they are from others or within, to God. He longs to bring good things into your life, but we MUST wait on His timing. His plan is far much better than what Grandmother, cousin, or even YOU have in mind.

              Instead of reflecting on what is not “right” in our lives, let’s reflect on what is and where we are going. As we wind down 2019, looking to 2020, I encourage you to appreciate how much you have grown. Reflect on all of the obstacles that you have faced and have had victory over. Even if you think that you have failed, look at the lessons that you learned and how much wiser you are from those encounters. As we step out of 2019, start planning for a year of increase, unbelievable miracles, and abundance. This is the time to shake of all the limitations that kept us down this year. Start taking out the trash and everything that is toxic to you; doesn’t bring peace, doesn’t make you better, and hinders your growth, THROW IT OUT!!! Your future depends upon your ability to embrace the good and get rid of the bad. Start writing down all of the things that You are believing God for in the upcoming year and make sure that they are crazy, ridiculous, faith-fueled requests. And as you submit those requests to God, leave it there. Continue to walk in obedience and faith and watch Him do some amazing things in your life in His perfect timing. Don’t forget to check out my YouTube channel for more information on this subject. And I can’t wait to see you in 2020; you already look far better than you do right now. Don’t give up and be encouraged!